About Me

I’m a twenty-something gay house-husband who loves Virginia Woolf, sex toys, and my 1973 cookbook (in that order, please). Honesty, kindness, and respect are key values for me, and all of those are vital when exploring one’s sexuality. I’m an out and proud bottom in a nurturing open polyamorous relationship. I wanted to start this blog because a) I have to share my passion. A creative writing professor once asked: “Do you need to write?” And I wavered. I wrote all the time, did that mean I needed to? I wasn’t sure. It took a few years out of school, and the system that kept me writing, to realize the answer was yes. I have to write. And this is how I want to share it at this point. I want to join the conversation that is taking place amongst amazing people like Hey Epiphora and the Redhead Bedhead. I want to add my gay man’s voice; my feminist, sex-positive, English degree, sex-toy crazed voice to the conversation.